Let’s face it. I’m a wedding photographer that doesn’t believe in the kind of 100% true bliss many aspire to believe in – there, I’ve said it. I love this clip produced by the MCYS in Singapore for two reasons:
A) Public messages that project such an impact and activate emotions like this are few and far between.
B) This particular clip is totally representative of what I believe in, where marriage is concerned.

True happiness in marriage, is born from the trials and tribulations that our relationships emerge from, for better or worse. Take pride in those that you have crossed paths with, and you’ll finally understand how you got to where you are today. It doesn’t matter how long you take to get there, as long as you figure out why, and by the time you do, you’ll dive in like a fish out of water.

7 years ago, I expressed my views to a bunch of ladies in their 20s, and all they could do was express their shock at my melancholic view of marriage. Interestingly enough, NON of them are married as I write this. Nothing comes in a perfect package, but it gets as beautiful as you want it to be.


A good buddy of mine posed a question yesterday.
He said,” Amos. Why did you get married? Did you think it was necessary to get married, just to be together?”
I replied,” If you weren’t planning on getting married…why get together in the first place?”
My retort doesn’t represent the natural progression of any relationship, and those of you who know a certain side of me also know that I don’t believe in the cycle of life as some see it.

Feel the need to do it, and go…live long and prosper.
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I’ve always loved small weddings because I find them so personal. Everyone knows everybody else, and we’re all there for one reason and one reason only: TO HAVE A ROCKIN’ GOOD TIME!

So, as promised Sunita! Here’s a snippet specially for you two.